What's your most-used anxiety tool?
Which anxiety management technique do you reach for most often?
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The 5-4-3-2-1 grounding technique actually helped today
Had a rough morning. Woke up with that heavy chest feeling and couldn't focus on anything. Tried the 5-4-3-2-1 thing for the first time properly – five things I could see, four I could touch...
My exposure therapy journey – month three update!
OK so I've been doing this for three months now and I genuinely can't believe the difference. I used to have full-blown panic attacks in supermarkets. Like, abandon-the-trolley-and-leave lev...
Box breathing – my go-to when nothing else works
Breathe in for 4 counts. Hold for 4. Out for 4. Hold for 4. Repeat. I do this at my desk, in the car, in bed. It's the one thing that consistently takes the edge off. Nothing fancy. Just wor...
Journaling prompt that helped me catch worry spirals
My therapist gave me this one: write down the worry, then ask 'what's the evidence for this?' and 'what's the evidence against it?' Then ask 'what would I tell a friend who had this worry?'...
Why avoidance feels like it helps – but actually keeps you stuck
Something I explain to nearly every client: when you avoid a feared situation, the immediate relief teaches your nervous system that the threat was real. You never stayed long enough to lear...
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